{"id":11516,"date":"2022-11-07T15:12:47","date_gmt":"2022-11-07T12:12:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/siirmolasi.com\/?p=11516"},"modified":"2022-11-07T15:12:49","modified_gmt":"2022-11-07T12:12:49","slug":"duygusal-guzel-sozler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.siirmolasi.com\/?p=11516","title":{"rendered":"Duygusal G\u00fczel S\u00f6zler&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"693\" src=\"http:\/\/siirmolasi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/png_20220206_104030_0000-1024x693.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-11457\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.siirmolasi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/png_20220206_104030_0000-1024x693.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.siirmolasi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/png_20220206_104030_0000-300x203.png 300w, https:\/\/www.siirmolasi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/png_20220206_104030_0000-768x520.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00d6m\u00fcr bir masal gibidir, ne kadar uzun oldu\u011fu de\u011fil, ne kadar g\u00fczel ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn ve g\u00f6zlerimizin rengi ne olursa olsun, g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n rengi ayn\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kar taneleri ne g\u00fczel anlat\u0131yor, birbirlerine zarar vermeden de yol alman\u0131n m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u00fck\u0435mm\u0435l ki\u015fiyi aramaktan vazg\u0435\u00e7. T\u0435k ihtiyac\u0131n olan sana sahip oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in \u015fansl\u0131 oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0435n biridir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do\u011fu\u015ftan sahip olduklar\u0131n\u0131zla ya\u015famay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmek bir s\u00fcre\u00e7, bir kat\u0131l\u0131m, yani ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n yo\u011frulmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u015fktan korkmak, ya\u015famdan korkmak demektir ve ya\u015famdan korkanlar \u015fimdiden \u00fc\u00e7 kez \u00f6lm\u00fc\u015flerdir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Baz\u0131 insanlar ya\u011fmuru hiss\u0435d\u0435r, baz\u0131lar\u0131 is\u0435 sad\u0435c\u0435 \u0131slan\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hayattaki en b\u00fcy\u00fck zafer hi\u00e7bir zaman d\u00fc\u015fmemekte de\u011fil, her d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde aya\u011fa kalkmakta yatar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cMutlu olmay\u0131 yar\u0131na b\u0131rakmak, kar\u015f\u0131ya ge\u00e7mek i\u00e7in nehrin durmas\u0131n\u0131 beklemeye benzer ve bilirsin, o nehir asla durmaz.\u201d \u2013 Grange<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00d6mr\u00fcn ilk yar\u0131s\u0131; ikinci yar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 beklemekle, ikinci yar\u0131s\u0131 da ilk yar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n hasretiyle ge\u00e7er.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir insan\u0131n nas\u0131l g\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden terbiyesini, neye g\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden ak\u0131l seviyesini anlars\u0131n. (Hz. Mevl\u00e2na)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nereye gitti\u011fini bilmiyorsan, hangi yoldan gitti\u011finin hi\u00e7bir \u00f6nemi yoktur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>D\u00fcnya bir g\u00f6k ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131, zihin bir prizma ve varl\u0131k ise beyaz bir \u0131\u015f\u0131nd\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hayatta en de\u011ferli olan zamand\u0131r. Kime hediye etti\u011fine dikkat et.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Neyi feda edersen, o sana ihsan edilir. Neye k\u0131yamazsan, onunla s\u0131nan\u0131rs\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Belki hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yolunda gitmedi; ama hi\u00e7 bir \u015fey de beni yolumdan etmedi!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir evin b\u00fct\u00fcn camlar\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131r\u0131p sonra da kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7alamazs\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mutluluk ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n hayat tarz\u0131nda de\u011fil, hayata bak\u0131\u015f tarz\u0131ndad\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>U\u00e7may\u0131 seviyorsan, d\u00fc\u015fmeyi de bileceksin. Korkarak ya\u015f\u0131yorsan, yaln\u0131zca hayat\u0131 seyredersin\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130nsanlar\u0131n, senin hakk\u0131nda ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcklerini \u00f6nemsemeyerek, \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fc uzatabilirsin mesela. \u2013 Bukowski<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unutma; H\u0435r g\u0435l\u0435n s\u0435vm\u0435z.. V\u0435 hi\u00e7bir s\u0435v\u0435n gitm\u0435z. &#8211; Naz\u0131m Hikm\u0435t<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yar\u0131m nefeslik bu hayatta. Sevgiden ba\u015fka hi\u00e7bir \u015fey planlama\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Herkese i\u00e7indeki iyilik kadar iyi bir hayat dilerim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ben yaln\u0131zca sevdiklerimden korkar\u0131m. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc beni sadece onlar incitebilirler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>G\u00fczeli g\u00fczel yapan edeptir, edep ise g\u00fczeli sevmeye sebeptir!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hakk\u0131n\u0131 helal et dememe bakma sen\u2026 Hayat\u0131n\u0131 haram edene hak helal edilir mi hi\u00e7.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sende, ben, imkans\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 seviyorum; fakat asla \u00fcmitsizli\u011fi de\u011fil. (Naz\u0131m Hikmet)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>G\u00fcl verenin elinde g\u00fcl kokusu kal\u0131r<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Arad\u0131\u011f\u0131n seni arayand\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir ku\u015f bile nasibi kadar kanat \u00e7\u0131rpar g\u00f6ky\u00fcz\u00fcnde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>G\u00f6n\u00fcl almay\u0131 bilmeyene \u00f6m\u00fcr emanet edilmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n yeri cennet yapamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n s\u00fcrece ka\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131n her yer cehennemdir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kucaklay\u0131n, nimetlerinizi say\u0131n ve sahip olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u015feyler hakk\u0131nda \u015fikayet etmeyin. (Joyce Meyer)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gerek yok her s\u00f6z\u00fc laf ile beyana. Bir bak\u0131\u015f bin s\u00f6z eder, bak\u0131\u015ftan anlayana. (Hz. Mevlana)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ne kadar hazin bir \u00e7a\u011fda ya\u015f\u0131yoruz, bir \u00f6nyarg\u0131y\u0131 ortadan kald\u0131rmak atomu par\u00e7alamaktan daha g\u00fc\u00e7.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 sadele\u015ftir. Asla ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 erteleme. Mutluluk bir yolculuktur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yan\u0131nda oldu\u011fum zaman de\u011ferimi bilmezsen, de\u011ferimi bildi\u011fin g\u00fcn beni yan\u0131nda bulamazs\u0131n. (Necip Faz\u0131l K\u0131sak\u00fcrek)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>D\u00fcr\u00fcst olmaktan korkma, kaybedece\u011fin en fazla yanl\u0131\u015f insanlar olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130nsan\u0131 farkl\u0131 yapan, affettikleri, g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc yapan sabrettikleri, kendisi yapan ise vazge\u00e7tikleridir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00dcstada sorarlar s\u0435vgi mi n\u0435fr\u0435t mi diy\u0435, \u201cn\u0435fr\u0435t\u201d diy\u0435 c\u0435vap v\u0435rir v\u0435 \u0435kl\u0435r; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc onun saht\u0435si olmaz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8216;Hayat ger\u00e7ekten basit, ama biz onu karma\u015f\u0131k hale getirmekte \u0131srar ediyoruz.&#8217; &#8211; Konf\u00fc\u00e7y\u00fcs<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>R\u00fcyanda g\u00f6r\u00fcyorsan onu \u00f6zlemi\u015f, r\u00fcyanda g\u00f6rmek i\u00e7in yat\u0131yorsan sevmi\u015fsin demektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8216;Hayat\u0131 seversen hayat\u0131n da seni sevece\u011fini \u00f6\u011frendim.&#8217;- Arthur Rubinstein<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kimileri seviyorum der, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ezberlemi\u015ftir. Kimileri diyemez, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ekten sevmi\u015ftir.- Mehmet G\u00fcreli<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130nsan odun de\u011fildir ki, k\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman ses \u00e7\u0131kars\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8216;Arada s\u0131rada aynaya bakmal\u0131 insan; G\u00fczel miyim diye de\u011fil. \u0130nsan m\u0131y\u0131m diye.&#8217;- Tuncel Kurtiz<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Okudu\u011fum kitapta \u015f\u00f6yle yaz\u0131yordu, fazla fedakarl\u0131k ki\u015finin kendi kul hakk\u0131na girmesidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E\u011fer do\u011fruyu s\u00f6ylersen hi\u00e7bir \u015feyi hat\u0131rlamak zorunda de\u011filsin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8216;\u00d6\u011frenmek, ya\u015fam\u0131n tek kan\u0131t\u0131d\u0131r.&#8217;- John Henry Newman<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>D\u00fcnya n\u00fcfusu artt\u0131k\u00e7a, insan say\u0131s\u0131 azal\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lay\u0131k oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmedi\u011finiz insanlara asla do\u011frular\u0131 s\u00f6ylemeyin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ger\u00e7e\u011fi ilk sen s\u00f6yle\u2026 Yoksa senin i\u00e7in birisi elbet do\u011fruyu s\u00f6yleyecektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yar\u0131n \u00f6lece\u011fimizi bilsek, t\u00fcm k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar\u0131 unuturuz; ama biz sonsuza kadar ya\u015fayacakm\u0131\u015f gibi k\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 ve gururluyuz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Umudunu yitirme \u015fu hayatta bir \u015feyin biti\u015fi, her zaman ba\u015fka bir \u015feyin ba\u015flamas\u0131na sebep olmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ok \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr ki g\u00f6ky\u00fcz\u00fc hen\u00fcz hi\u00e7bir c\u00fczdana s\u0131\u011fm\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u011flanacak halimize g\u00fcl\u00fcyoruz der k\u0131zarlar. Oda bir \u015fey mi? Ben \u00f6l\u00fcnecek halime ya\u015f\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Senin inanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n o sevgiye ben binlerce kez g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131 d\u00f6kt\u00fcm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u015fk \u00f6yle i\u011fren\u00e7 bir duygu ki nerede imkans\u0131z varsa gelip onu se\u00e7er!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kendin ol. Zaten herkes al\u0131nd\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Asl\u0131nda b\u00fct\u00fcn insanlar\u0131 sevebilirdim, sevmeye ilk senden ba\u015flamasayd\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u015fk kelime de\u011fil bir c\u00fcmledir kurmak i\u00e7inse \u00f6zneyle y\u00fcklem de\u011fil y\u00fcrek gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Can\u0131m\u0131 yaka yaka, bo\u011faz\u0131mdaki d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmleri yutkundum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O kadar g\u00fczel g\u00fcl\u00fcyordu ki, sevmesem ziyan olacakt\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sevdi\u011fi ben de\u011filim. Size bunun ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 anlatamam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bazen var&#8217;\u0131 anlars\u0131n\u0131z, yok ile\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu hep b\u00f6yleydi. \u0130yi insanlar yanl\u0131\u015f duraklarda bile g\u00fczel g\u00fcnler beklerken, k\u00f6t\u00fc insanlar do\u011fru durakta bile k\u0131ymet bilmediler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorsunuz zamanla her \u015feye ama asla bitmiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ne istedi\u011fin ile ne yapabilece\u011fin aras\u0131ndaki fark\u0131 ancak kendinden vazge\u00e7ti\u011finde kapatabilirsin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130nsan beyni her zaman m\u00fckemmel bir \u00e7ift\u00e7i. Durmadan her \u015feyi ekip bi\u00e7iyor. Sonunda ise her \u015feyi anl\u0131yorsun. Anlamak\u2026 Anlamak \u00e7ok tehlikeli bir \u015fey.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir yol d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyorsun \u00f6nce. Ama ne ba\u015f\u0131ndas\u0131n bu yolun ne de sonunda. \u00dcst\u00fcnde bile de\u011filsin hatta ama i\u00e7inden \u00e7\u0131kam\u0131yorsun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zaman ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e daha iyi anl\u0131yorsun. Hi\u00e7bir \u015feyi eskisi kadar sevemedi\u011fini!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sen beni yanl\u0131\u015f anlad\u0131n. Unutamad\u0131m de\u011fil unutmad\u0131m. Bilerek ve isteyerek!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00d6m\u00fcr bir masal gibidir, ne kadar uzun oldu\u011fu de\u011fil, ne kadar g\u00fczel ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6nemlidir. Y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn ve g\u00f6zlerimizin rengi ne olursa olsun, g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n rengi ayn\u0131d\u0131r. Kar taneleri ne g\u00fczel anlat\u0131yor, birbirlerine zarar vermeden de yol alman\u0131n m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funu. 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